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Protecting Children is Everyone’s Responsibility

Counselling, GBV / Gender based violence, Road To Justice, Road To Recovery
A Spotlight on Mazeeda Karani, Child Care and Protection Social Worker at Rape Crisis

Every day, Mazeeda Karani carries stories that many find too painful to imagine—stories woven with harm, silence, resilience, and survival. Now in her fourth year with Rape Crisis, she has been a steady and compassionate presence, serving as the Child Care and Protection Social Worker across the three Thuthuzela Care Centres (TCCs) we support: Victoria Hospital, Karl Bremer Hospital, and Heideveld Hospital. In these spaces, she walks alongside child survivors of sexual violence, gently guiding them through the complex and often overwhelming process of healing. But this is not happening in a vacuum. South Africa’s pervasive culture of violence and aggression has created a landscape where sexual violence is far too common, and where children’s safety is continuously threatened.

We are sitting in a dire situation. Over a six-year period—from 2018/2019 to 2023/2024—more than 106 000 cases of child rape were reported in South Africa – a statistic sourced from a parliamentary question highlighted in an October 2024 press release. That’s an average of 48 children raped every day. During the same period, over 22 000 cases of child sexual assault were recorded—an average of 10 children sexually assaulted each day. These figures are horrifying in their magnitude, but they represent only the tip of the iceberg. Many children never get the chance to speak out, trapped in silence by fear, shame, or the absence of safe spaces to disclose. The true scale of this crisis is far greater than the numbers suggest. It’s not just a crisis—it’s an emergency we cannot afford to ignore.

Mazeeda’s work is rooted in creating safety, support, and hope for children facing unimaginable circumstances. “I see children from birth to 18 years, often referred from schools, hospitals, or directly from their homes or foster care,” she shares. “I provide family counselling, work with siblings who may also be affected, and help children navigate the immediate and long-term effects of abuse.” Siblings, especially, carry their own trauma—sometimes acting as protectors, other times blaming themselves. Children in foster care face additional vulnerabilities, navigating new environments while processing deep wounds. Mazeeda ensures these children are not overlooked.

Her role is critical in South Africa’s broader child protection system, which she acknowledges faces significant challenges. “We’re dealing with low funding, social workers who are burnt out, and a lack of resources, which leaves children and families in uncertainty,” Mazeeda says. “But my work provides some stability—especially for children going through transitions, like being removed from harmful situations or dealing with the trauma of a family member being arrested.” Systemic delays—like waiting months for forensic assessments or enduring long-drawn-out justice processes—can retraumatise survivors and erode trust. Many children, Mazeeda says, feel like they’ve been left in limbo, with no clarity or closure. It’s another layer of harm that must be addressed if we’re serious about protecting children.

“Children carry more than we realise,” she continues. “They carry pain in their silence, in their play, and in how they move through the world after something traumatic has happened to them.” Her work is grounded in patience, empathy, and the understanding that healing for children is never linear. It requires deep trust and a willingness to meet them on their terms. “You can’t sit across a table and expect a child to talk the way an adult would,” she says. “It’s about entering their world, paying attention to their cues, and creating a space where they feel seen, heard, and safe.” Through play-based techniques, storytelling, and non-verbal expressions, Mazeeda creates an environment where children can begin to process their experiences without pressure or fear.

South Africa’s pervasive culture of violence and aggression adds layers of complexity to child protection work. “Children who have been sexually abused are particularly vulnerable,” Mazeeda notes. “There’s a lack of awareness in communities about sexual violence, which means we’re often dealing with children who’ve been exposed to harmful behaviours, either directly or through older peers, and who are now modelling those behaviours in their own lives.” She highlights how platforms like social media and gaming are introducing harmful sexual content to children at a young age. “Education on prevention and awareness is crucial—not just in schools but also in families. We need to build an environment where children understand healthy boundaries and behaviours.”

At the TCCs, Mazeeda witnesses firsthand the human stories behind the statistics—children from diverse backgrounds, each carrying invisible scars, and families grappling with the aftermath of violence. Access to care, she explains, remains one of the biggest challenges. “For many families, just getting to the TCC is a challenge in itself. They may travel long distances, navigate unfamiliar systems, and arrive in a space that feels cold and clinical. That’s why our presence is so important. We offer consistency, warmth, and a sense of safety in an otherwise overwhelming environment.” Mazeeda is also clear about what survivors need most from the adults in their lives: to be believed. “Belief is the first form of safety,” she says. “When a child discloses abuse, they’re not just sharing a fact—they’re asking: Do you see me? Do you believe me? Can I trust you to protect me? How we respond shapes their entire healing journey.”

Despite the emotional weight of her work, Mazeeda finds strength in the small moments that reveal a child’s resilience. “It’s heavy, but it’s also a privilege,” she says. “These children teach me about strength and courage in ways I never expected. When a child laughs again, draws something hopeful, or asks to come back to see us—that’s when I know this work is making a difference. Those moments keep me going.” Her work also brings a profound understanding of the weight of silence and stigma surrounding sexual violence. “One of the biggest challenges is that some communities still view abuse as a private matter, or blame the child or family for what happened,” she says. “There’s still too much shame, and not enough support. We need to shift the narrative—to move from blame and secrecy to safety and accountability.”

As we mark Child Protection Week, Mazeeda’s message is both urgent and hopeful: “Don’t wait for a campaign or a headline to protect children. Start by listening to them, by creating spaces where they feel safe, and by believing them when they speak. It’s not just the responsibility of professionals—it’s on all of us.” She urges adults to be vigilant for signs of abuse. “Children may become withdrawn, isolated, or exhibit poor self-care. Others might act out disruptively, seeking attention but unable to articulate what’s wrong. If a child discloses abuse, it’s crucial to listen, be supportive, reassure them it’s not their fault, and report it immediately. Reporting isn’t optional—it’s a legal and moral responsibility.”

This Child Protection Week, let’s all take responsibility. Whether you’re a parent, educator, neighbour, or friend, your actions can create ripples of safety and support for the children around you. Stand with survivors. Speak out. Build a world where every child can feel safe, heard, and valued. If you or someone you know needs support, Rape Crisis is here to help. Our 24-hour helpline is always open: 021 447 9762. Your courage is met with compassion, and no one has to face this alone. Let’s work together to break the silence and create a society where every child’s voice is heard. Let’s build a future where no child has to face this journey alone.

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A Letter from a Survivor

Counselling, Road To Justice, Road To Recovery, Speak Out

The following piece is a first-hand account of sexual abuse written by a courageous survivor in her own words. Parts of this letter may be triggering to some – reader discretion is advised. If you would like to speak to a Rape Crisis counsellor, please contact our 24 helpline: 021 447 9762. If you can’t speak to anyone, speak to us.

You have a choice. Don’t let anybody make you believe that you don’t.

Someone might have power over your body for a moment, but they don’t have power over your mind or your future. I know because a few months ago I thought it was going to be a normal Monday afternoon, but it was not a normal Monday.

I was raped for two hours that Monday. Someone that I had trusted with what was most important to me disregarded my trust in the most horrific way. I kept asking him to stop as the tears flooded my eyes and ran down my cheeks, but he did not stop.

He did not stop.

If it wasn’t for a phone call with a friend the day after, I don’t know if I would have said anything. But that evening I decided to press charges, and since then I have been fighting for my own justice. It was at the forensic unit that I visited within 72hrs that the fact that I had been raped finally hit me.

Though the inside of my secret place had been violently torn, broken, skinned, bruised, and swollen (I could not walk properly or sit down without pain for two weeks and the doctor said it would take 6-8 months for my body to heal completely) — these were only physical wounds. But it was the unseen wounds that I did not accept.

I did not accept shame, depression, feeling unloved, unworthy, rejected or broken. I did not accept the idea that I was any less of a person than I was before the rape. I did not accept that there was anything wrong with me, because there wasn’t. No, there was only something wrong with the person that committed this crime.

Though I still felt pain and my heart was broken because someone I considered a friend would do this to me, it was not the pain that tripped me up. NO, it was the pain that made me want to scream. It was the pain that made me want to speak. It was the pain that made me want to let the world know that even though evil things happen, you do NOT need to allow a circumstance to have power over you.

Even if you didn’t speak up when you were raped, you can still speak up now – it’s never too late to share your story.

You can still have your justice too.

29th April 2022/by Sino
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Being a black woman can be quite a phenomenon

GBV / Gender based violence

Being a black woman can be quite a phenomenon.. the kind of ‘endangered species’ phenomenon.
One moment we go ‘black lives matter!.. black lives matter’. The next we hear or read of our kind being found raped and murdered. Then it’s like.. women’s lives matter too!!

And then we are hurt, angry, sad and terrified. We don’t know what to do. Then we are moved to be part of every action/march/protest against GBVF (Gender based violence and femicide) that there is.. but then we realise these actions do not translate to change or less cases of GBVF. But we do get the needed feeling of having done something and being in solidarity- we are angry together.. we are triggered differently but together.. we cry together.. we voice our concerns together.. we put forward how these can be addressed, together.

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24th June 2020/by Sino
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PRESS STATEMENT: President fails to announce funding for GBV response

Road To Justice, RSJC

In a pre recorded address to the nation today, President Ramaphosa made a number of commitments to end Gender Based Violence in South Africa. Part of his speech included a roll call of dead women, who died at the hands of men.

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In These Moments

Road To Recovery

In these moments it is okay to feel hopeless, helpless, vulnerable and angry. The past week has highlighted horrific incidents of violence against women. People have expressed their rage, helplessness and hopelessness at the situation and rightly so. Many of us are experiencing moral fatigue on social issues in South Africa and globally.

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4th September 2019/by Sino
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Rape Crisis Weekend Away

Advocacy

Team building activity: The helium pole

Rape Crisis is an organisation whose work is for the healing and empowerment of survivors of sexual violence. Our work is founded on feminist principles of advocacy, freedom from patriarchal violence and freedom of choice. Rape Crisis makes visible the needs as well as the experience and disempowering reception and treatment of survivors as they navigate the system in search of help and justice.

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Why #CSW63 Matters

Advocacy, Making Change

In our previous blog The Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) we described how UN Member States, civil society organisations and UN entities gather at UN headquarters in New York to discuss matters of importance for the rights of women across the world.

South Africa being a member state is represented by Minister in the Presidency responsible for Women, Bathabile Dlamini who leads a government and civil society delegation that includes  Minister of Small Business Development, Lindiwe Zulu. The delegation will present South Africa’s report on the status of social protection system, access to public service, sustainable infrastructure for gender equality and the empowerment of women and girls in South Africa. Minister Zulu will also participate in some of the ministerial  roundtables, high level interactive dialogue and interactive expert  panels. 

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Ramaphosa’s SONA and the issue of gender-based violence

Making Change

Cyril Ramaphosa will have to explain on Thursday how the state will give effect to majority party January 8 statement commitments in the light of a shrinking fiscus.

Gender-based violence made it into the January 8 statement of the majority party. And not just a mention – a relatively thorough and honest assessment of the state of women and girl children in South Africa, and in particular the unprecedented levels of abuse, violence and murder suffered by them. The president said “we must hang our heads in shame” at the state of gender-based violence and the patriarchal practices that give rise to it in the country.
Indeed. He also asked the men in the stadium to stand and make a commitment to end gender-based violence. Contrast this with no mention of gender-based violence at all in last year’s January 8 statement.

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